Just for sex & sleep

I moved my 14 inch television to the room downstair after reading this article on The Star:

Keep work materials, computers and televisions out of the bedroom; it should be used for sleep and sex only.

I cannot remember how long I have not been watching TV; mainly because I am too lazy to go downstairs!  Ooh, yeah!  I still use my notebook in the room and (always!!!) bring my working papers on the bed, although I hardly read them it just taking the space which, much to the annoyance of LouLou theCat.

< Looking around my room >

Hmm...  I think I need to take out the newspaper, the work material, stack of books that I have finished from my room.  It looks like a messy office/study room rather than an inviting bedroom!  Tomorrow la!

Goodnight!

Lunch's crunchy note

Want a Raise? Wash Your Vagina

O M G !

It was the title that caught my eyes first.

So perfect for my post-lunch's please-snap-me-out-from-the-sleepiness.

Baby, baby, baby, ooh!

One acquaintance lamented: “Those who wish to have one but cannot / still have not got it; while the others were simply abandoning the new lives” when she saw a newspaper headline.  It is hard to ignore the baby-dumping news because now it appeared almost every day.

I seldom read thoroughly such news because to me it is just more or less like reading a Hollywood (or put it a Bollywood if you want) gossip.  Except, it is not a gossip and the mother (and maybe her family and relatives) will be the hot topic amongst the loudmouth aunties.

What would the others think I am?

I personally know someone whom went through an abortion because:

• She was not married at the time
• Fear that she’ll be kicked out of uni if the authority know about it

(I don’t know about our uni rules/policy on single, unwed student getting pregnant until now; and never thought of searching for it if that could help her making an optional decision earlier on.)

The social stigma apparently has more effect on her than the love for the unborn child.  I cannot blame her for giving up; neither do I know how she feels about the whole thing.  Because she only shared on how physically drained she was; how she wanted to have ginger chicken soup with wine… just the surface matter, nothing on the emotional part.

I love you

I don’t have children; but I treat my pets almost like my own kids.  I love them to bits: I get worry about them as I left them at home or when they fail to come home when the curfew is over, nag them if they didn’t finish the food…  If I can feel such love for my furkids, I believe so are the young mothers who abandoned their child.

BUT, BUT!  Obviously they love themselves more.  NO!  I say, they love (or loved) their sexual partner more that they’re willing to compromise their own wellbeing!  Can’t we find anyone who is more foolish than that?!

The solution

Blame the pornographic and the western culture (Valentine’s Day & New Year)?  I watched porn videos and always enjoy New Year holidays (I would have enjoy Valentine’s Day too if we have one or two public holiday on it, LOL!!!).  If your theories are true, I could have been stuck with numerous pregnancies, you idiot @$$h0L3!

Perhaps it’ll take us longer to change the public perception that an unwed pregnant girl is not a slut/whore/tart (not matter how hormonal-frenzied she is).  I know those makcik-makcik whom favourite afternoon fiesta is including whispering “her daughter is living together with the guy, that’s how she got pregnant” or “she can’t hide her tummy in that wedding gown, already got only get married”.  See how judgmental, destructive our behaviour is?  I really hope these old sluts/whores/tarts aunties find one way or another to spend their free time in a more positive way.

And the girls just have to be more selfish than ever:  PLEASE RESPECT AND LOVE YOURSELF MORE THAN ANYONE/ANYTHING ELSE!

Quicker than a Quickie

• Had a late lunch at 2pm due to urgent stuff at workplace.  Thought want to skip but hate feeling hungry later in the afternoon.  Besides, I don't have biscuits in my drawer now, only a gluten-free yoghurt bar.  Not exactly what I like to go with my afternoon coffee.
• Funny quote of the day (read full article here).  Despite me having no intention to have my own sooner/later, I still think there is something bothering, and objectionable about the part that reads "...or have none at all".

"The No. 1 thing people can do to be an eco-sexual is to have fewer kids, or have none at all," said Weiss, who is childless.

• Was thinking of doing a bit of online shopping when I was dragged out of the office.  It was about work.  I missed my coffee.